You who were created by love like itself can hold no grievances and know your Self. ²To hold a grievance is to forget who you are. ³To hold a grievance is to see yourself as a body. ⁴To hold a grievance is to let the ego rule your mind and to condemn the body to death. ⁵Perhaps you do not yet fully realize just what holding grievances does to your mind. ⁶It seems to split you off from your Source and make you unlike Him. ⁷It makes you believe that He is like what you think you have become, for no one can conceive of his Creator as unlike himself.
…he who holds grievances denies he was created by love, and his Creator has become fearful to him in his dream of hate. ⁵Who can dream of hatred and not fear God?
²It is as sure that those who hold grievances will suffer guilt, as it is certain that those who forgive will find peace. ³It is as sure that those who hold grievances will forget who they are, as it is certain that those who forgive will remember.
…think of yourself as completely at peace with everyone and everything, safe in a world that protects you and loves you, and that you love in return. ⁵Try to feel safety surrounding you, hovering over you and holding you up. ⁶Try to believe, however briefly, that nothing can harm you in any way. (A Course in Miracles, W-68.1;2:4-5;3:2-3;6:4-6. See also ACIM Lesson 68 Insights.)
Holding a grievance has no effect on the object of our grievance. But it is literally devastating to our awareness of our true Self. We have accepted in place of our Self a false image that is weak, vulnerable, isolated and in need of constant defense. This is not God’s Creation, nor What we were created to be by our Creator.
We were created to be Love as His extension of His Love. To be Love, we must extend Love, for that is Love’s nature. As we let go of our grievances, we remove the barriers to Love’s extension. Simultaneously, as we extend Love, we experience the Love we are. We experience the peace and happiness that are Love’s attributes.
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