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Lesson 31 2026

I am not the victim of the world I see.
1. Today’s idea is the introduction to your declaration of release. ²Again, the idea should be applied to both the world you see without and the world you see within. ³In applying the idea, we will use a form of practice which will be used more and more, with changes as indicated. ⁴Generally speaking, the form includes two aspects, one in which you apply the idea on a more sustained basis, and the other consisting of frequent applications of the idea throughout the day.
2. Two longer periods of practice with the idea for today are needed, one in the morning and one at night. ²Three to five minutes for each of these are recommended. ³During that time, look about you slowly while repeating the idea two or three times. ⁴Then close your eyes, and apply the same idea to your inner world. ⁵You will escape from both together, for the inner is the cause of the outer.
3. As you survey your inner world, merely let whatever thoughts cross your mind come into your awareness, each to be considered for a moment, and then replaced by the next. ²Try not to establish any kind of hierarchy among them. ³Watch them come and go as dispassionately as possible. ⁴Do not dwell on any one in particular, but try to let the stream move on evenly and calmly, without any special investment on your part. ⁵As you sit and quietly watch your thoughts, repeat today’s idea to yourself as often as you care to, but with no sense of hurry.
4. In addition, repeat the idea for today as often as possible during the day. ²Remind yourself that you are making a declaration of independence in the name of your own freedom. ³And in your freedom lies the freedom of the world.
5. The idea for today is also a particularly useful one to use as a response to any form of temptation that may arise. ²It is a declaration that you will not yield to it, and put yourself in bondage. (ACIM, W-31)
2025
I think that we each come here with specific tasks - beliefs that we want to forgive for all of the Sonship. I was drawn to this lesson from the beginning, and I am sure that was because this was a belief I chose to undo. I always felt like a victim, and though I believe everything Jesus tells us in the Course, I struggled with this one.
It so often seemed obvious I was a victim in certain circumstances. But I kept working with it, and kept forgiving the idea of victimhood. This became a belief I completely forgave. I do not now believe I could ever be a victim. This doesn’t mean that the ego mind stopped reaching for that belief. But it does mean that I never accept it as true.
For instance, I was abused by a neighbor when I was a child. The ego argued that a child does not choose this, and I couldn’t do anything about it. In this situation, I was definitely a victim. But this can’t be true since this is my story. And the story was not chosen as a child. Now I see how this situation and others were necessary to the story. After all, if I was to forgive the belief in victimhood, I had to know what it was to feel like a victim.
Even now, the ego dangles the victimhood belief before me to see if I’m going to bite. After the last damaging hurricane in my area, I, like many people here, had some unfortunate experiences with contractors while trying to get repairs done on my house. The ego mind argued for victimhood in this case. It was useless because I just could not and can not now sustain any feeling of victimhood. Give it up, ego. It is never going to work. ~smile~
My success with this lesson is a perfect example of how wonderfully the Course works if we let it. I didn’t change my mind about victimhood the first time I read the lesson. I had to practice forgiveness with situations in my life repeatedly before the idea that I could never be a victim of the world I see became the truth for me. I am so very grateful to Brother for his Course. And I am grateful to myself for my persistence.
2026
As often happens, something occurs before I read the lesson that helps me understand it better or see how to use it. In the past, it has been a video someone sent me or a post I read on Facebook, something like that. This morning, it was a vivid dream I woke up to. I was dreaming that I was actively trying to hurt my body, as if I were my own abuser. It wasn’t a nightmare type thing, just me chasing pain without any emotional reaction to the dream. So, I knew right away that it was an instructional dream. Then I read today’s lesson, and I see what it was trying to say to me.
In my dream, I was not a victim of anything outside of me. I was choosing pain, actually chasing it. In the lesson, Jesus says the idea should be applied to both the world you see without and the world you see within. In the dream, I am choosing to hurt myself, and thus I become my own victim. In the outer world, when I think I am hurt or upset by someone else or some situation, I am using it to make myself a victim. What the two situations have in common, of course, is that I am doing it to myself.
The solution in both cases is to stop. I cannot be the victim of the world I see because the world I see is my own projection. It begins in my mind and is then projected outward because I want it –it is my unconscious desire to keep a self-concept. I can then see how that works, how it feels, and determine if I find it valuable and still want to keep it. If I do, then I will resist any efforts made to help me escape it. This will become my life as I experience it.
On the other hand, if I fail to see any value in holding onto the victim story of my choice, I can forgive it and let it go. The story may persist for a while, but it will not be the upsetting situation it was, and eventually, it will likely stop showing up. In Lesson 132, we will get another way of seeing this that further emphasizes that we are never a victim of the world we see.
There is no world apart from what you wish, and herein lies your ultimate release. ²Change but your mind on what you want to see, and all the world must change accordingly. (ACIM, W-132.5:1-2)
One other valuable insight occurs to me this morning. I have been thinking that ever since 2016, the world has been in turmoil. This may be accurate, but it takes on victimhood if I think that it is a reason for distress of any kind: frustration, fear, anger, anxiety, or hatred. Those reactions happen when I begin to think that I am a victim of the world I see. And I realized this morning that at times I have been attracted to that form of victimhood without allowing myself to be consciously aware of what I was doing. I was chasing pain, pain I was inflicting on myself. Maybe the dream was inviting me to bring this up into my awareness so I could let that go. I believe it was, and I know I will because it is not possible that I am a victim of the world I see, and I know that now. I can watch gently for the ways I may still be doing this to myself—and stop.
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