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Study of Text, Chapter 9, V. The Unhealed Healer, P 9. 3-2-15

V. The Unhealed Healer P 9
9 This course offers a very direct and a very simple learning situation, and provides the Guide Who tells you what to do. If you do it, you will see that it works. Its results are more convincing than its words. They will convince you that the words are true. By following the right Guide, you will learn the simplest of all lessons:
By their fruits ye shall know them, and they shall know themselves.

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My experience of the Course has been that the results have proven the words, just as Jesus says. I started studying the Course in 1981 if I remember right, or maybe 1982. The first thing I noticed is that it felt right even though I could not explain why. Actually, common sense would have me totally reject it because it was so strange to me. At that time there were not a lot of people doing the Course and so I couldn’t say that many others agreed that this was right. But I still did it because I still felt something, a stirring within, I think.

As I became immersed in it, especially as I tried to apply it to my life, do the lessons, I began to feel the resistance. I still believed it must be true, that seemed undeniable to me, but I had a hard time accepting it on a personal level. It took a long time for me to do the lessons all the way through. I kept bumping into my walls of resistance.

But even so, I was slowly beginning to heal and to feel that healing. Like a snowball rolling down hill, it started small but got bigger and picked up momentum, and that was because as I gave what willingness I had, I began to experience my life and my self differently. What I thought must be true was proven to me as true as I used the Course. Each proof motivated me to seek more.

Now I have no doubt whatsoever, that everything the Course says is true. More importantly, I have no doubt that I will accept it all and live it all. Even in the moments when it seems most unlikely, when my resistance seems strongest, I do not doubt. I feel frustration, but I don’t doubt. This is the path home, I want to go home, I can go home. This is what I know, and I know it even if I have not yet fully achieved it.

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Study of Text, Chapter 9, V. The Unhealed Healer, P 8. 3-2-15

V. The Unhealed Healer P 8
8 A therapist does not heal; he lets healing be. He can point to darkness but he cannot bring light of himself, for light is not of him. Yet, being for him, it must also be for his patient. The Holy Spirit is the only Therapist. He makes healing clear in any situation in which He is the Guide. You can only let Him fulfill His function. He needs no help for this. He will tell you exactly what to do to help anyone He sends to you for help, and will speak to him through you if you do not interfere. Remember that you choose the guide for helping, and the wrong choice will not help. But remember also that the right one will. Trust Him, for help is His function, and He is of God. As you awaken other minds to the Holy Spirit through Him, and not yourself, you will understand that you are not obeying the laws of this world. But the laws you are obeying work. “The good is what works” is a sound though insufficient statement. Only the good can work. Nothing else works at all.


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This is a very clear paragraph with no explanation needed. I cannot help anyone on my own, that is, through the ego mind. I can help anyone sent my way through listening to the Holy Spirit. He is the Therapist and if I listen to Him, just get out of the way and let Him work through me, I can be of help. And this is the only way I can be of help.

I have done this in several ways. The best way of all is to help the other person to access the Holy Spirit and receive his own personal wisdom. I learned a process to do this at Pathways of Light as part of my ministerial program. I use a very specific script to help the person go into a deep meditative state, and then guide him or her to become aware of the problem, and to hear the answer directly from his or her own Inner Guidance. I act as scribe, writing down what they are told, and I hold that space for them. It is an act of joining between the person I am working with, me, and the Holy Spirit, and it is an act of listening rather than thinking.

Another way I do this is when I counsel. Someone calls or writes and asks for help. I listen. There are times when this is the most helpful part of what I do. Often when a person actively joins with another and talks it out, the person finds his or her own answer. I think the joining, being in union, two or more gathered, is what opens the heart to the truth. When I listen, I do so, not with my ego mind, but with my open heart. I ask the Holy Spirit to listen with me, to give me words if they are needed, to prompt my silence when that is needed.

Every morning I wake up to coffee and Jesus. I read his words and I ask Him to join with me in this reading. I ask him to help me understand what he wants me to know about that morning’s reading. I write in my journal what I receive. Sometimes it simply clarifies. Sometimes the understanding I am given is unexpected and even startling. Sometimes it triggers a shift in my understanding that leaves me breathless.

The thoughts that are given may not seem extraordinary, but the healing that occurs as I hear/write them is a miracle. Then, whatever I write, I share. I post it in various places. I might talk about it to someone if appropriate. Always I share. I am not a perfect listener, but every time I do my best to step back and simply allow myself to be guided, I get better at it.

Perhaps the most useful form of helping is to be what I want to share. I walk the talk, so to speak. Failing that, I find my way back to the path and so even my temporary stumble becomes a teaching tool. All of God’s messengers are still learning. If they had it all down they wouldn’t be here. As it says in the Manual for Teachers, “…they teach perfection over and over, in many, many ways, until they have learned it.”

Whew! I am not perfect and that’s OK. I have moments of perfection and I teach that. I have moments of fumbling, and I teach from that. My life is a form of therapy, both for myself and for others, because I consistently put my faith in the Holy Spirit. I step back as much as I can. I listen to the Voice for God as well as I can. In so doing, I am learning to hear only that Voice.

These are the ways I allow the Holy Spirit to do Therapy through me. They are just forms and as such not important. I allow Holy Spirit to direct me to the form most helpful, and so any or all of them could change. The content, though, is love and that never changes. I try not to interfere. That’s my main job; step my ego back and allow the work to be done through me. What a blessing that is! And this is something anyone can do. All that is required is willingness. The payoff is out of this world! Literally.

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Study of Text, Chapter 9, V. The Unhealed Healer, P 7. 2-27-15

Chapter 9, V. The Unhealed Healer P 7
7 Both forms of the ego’s approach, then, must arrive at an impasse; the characteristic “impossible situation” to which the ego always leads. It may help someone to point out where he is heading, but the point is lost unless he is also helped to change his direction. The unhealed healer cannot do this for him, since he cannot do it for himself. The only meaningful contribution the healer can make is to present an example of one whose direction has been changed for him, and who no longer believes in nightmares of any kind. The light in his mind will therefore answer the questioner, who must decide with God that there is light because he sees it. And by his acknowledgement the healer knows it is there. That is how perception ultimately is translated into knowledge. The miracle worker begins by perceiving light, and translates his perception into sureness by continually extending it and accepting its acknowledgement. Its effects assure him it is there.

Jesus makes it very simple and easy to understand. The healer heals by being healed. A true healer presents an example of one who does not believe in nightmares of any kind, and the light in his mind is perceived by the mind of the one who needs healing. Then he believes in the light because he sees it. The healer is further enlightened as his light is acknowledged and this translates his perception into sureness.

Here is how this feels to me in my own life. I am learning that nightmares are never true no matter how real they may appear to be in the world. Every time I believe in one, but remain open to healing, I discover that the dream is an illusion and I become more certain that all nightmares are just illusions.

When I teach or counsel I am doing so from the highest part of my self that I can access. That part of my mind can see the nightmare my student is having for what it is. I know the truth for the student and am not confused by her story. This certainty in my mind is a light that, on some level, can be perceived by the student. I translate it into words and we talk, but it is the certainty that heals.

I have had times when my mind would be all fogged in because I had been listening to ego. My personal self would be confused and unhappy. I would get a call from a student asking for help seeing a problem differently, and as I allowed the little self to step back and the Holy Spirit to move forward in my mind, I was perfectly clear and perfectly certain as my student and I spoke.

That never ceases to amaze me. It also has helped me to understand that the ego confusion is just a temporary condition and that the truth remains in my mind even when I am listening to the wrong voice. It is harder now for me to take the ego as seriously as before, because I have had proof that the truth is there all the time even when I am not noticing it. I have proof that my mind is part of God’s Mind all the time. As I shine that light for my student, I see it reflected back to me and this translates my perception into sureness.

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Study of Text, Chapter 9,V The Unhealed Healer, P 6. 2-26-15

V. The Unhealed Healer P 6
6 What, then, should happen? When God said, “Let there be light,” there was light. Can you find light by analyzing darkness, as the psychotherapist does, or like the theologian, by acknowledging darkness in yourself and looking for a distant light to remove it, while emphasizing the distance? Healing is not mysterious. Nothing will change unless it is understood, since light is understanding. A “miserable sinner” cannot be healed without magic, nor can an “unimportant mind” esteem itself without magic.

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“Can you find light by analyzing darkness…” is the key idea I am taking from this paragraph. I am not going to find the answer in the story, and I am not going to understand what needs to be done by looking at the story. In fact, dwelling on the story is going to keep me in darkness and confuse me further.

Whether working with myself or with someone else, I try to move out of the story as quickly as possible. The story, what seems to be happening in my life, can help me see that I need correction, but it is not the story that needs to be corrected; it is a belief in my mind that needs correction. Further analysis of the story would help only if I were going to try to make myself feel better by reordering my story. This is trying to heal through magical means and it has never worked and never will.

What does help is to realize that the story is just a symbol of a thought in my mind that has been projected outward and seen as if it is real. If I don’t immediately recognize the symbolism, it can help to look at how the situation makes me feel. For instance, if I feel like life is not fair, or that I was unfairly treated, then I know that I believe I am a victim of the world I see.

This can’t be true, so I ask the Holy Spirit to remove that thought from my mind so that I can see the truth that lies just behind it. When I ask for healing it really is like a light came on. I see what was before obscured by the dark thoughts in my mind. I do this each time I notice that my story triggers fear or guilt in my mind.

Practice has taught me that I could have peace instead of this, and I have learned to desire peace more than I desire the story of victimhood. As I remain vigilant and as I consistently choose peace, there is transfer of learning. I begin to automatically choose peace, and there is not that uncomfortable period of suffering while I decide I want my mind to be healed.

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Study of Text, Chapter 9,V. the Unhealed Healer, P 4. 2-25-15

V. The Unhealed Healer P 4
4 Some newer forms of the ego’s plan are as unhelpful as the older ones, because form does not matter and the content has not changed. In one of the newer forms, for example, a psychotherapist may interpret the ego’s symbols in a nightmare, and then use them to prove that the nightmare is real. Having made it real, he then attempts to dispel its effects by depreciating the importance of the dreamer. This would be a healing approach if the dreamer were also identified as unreal. Yet if the dreamer is equated with the mind, the mind’s corrective power through the Holy Spirit is denied. This is a contradiction even in the ego’s terms, and one which it usually notes even in its confusion.
5 If the way to counteract fear is to reduce the importance of the mind, how can this build ego strength? Such evident inconsistencies account for why no one has really explained what happens in psychotherapy. Nothing really does. Nothing real has happened to the unhealed healer, and he must learn from his own teaching. His ego will always seek to get something from the situation. The unhealed healer therefore does not know how to give, and consequently cannot share. He cannot correct because he is not working correctively. He believes that it is up to him to teach the patient what is real, although he does not know it himself.

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I think the last sentence sums up both paragraphs. “He believes that it is up to him to teach the patient what is real, although he does not know it himself.” This is the unhealed healer. He is confused about what is real and what isn’t. He looks at the story for the truth, for clues to undo what he has made real. Making it real is how you keep it, not undo it.

The story is just form and not content, and changing the form will not really change anything. Changing the form is what we do all the time as we try to make the world change to suit us, and it doesn’t work. It doesn’t work because it is the content that must be changed, and the content is not found in the form, though the form can lead to the content if one knows to look for it.

The unhealed healer goes into the relationship expecting to get something from it. He wants to be the one who knows, the one who succeeds. He thinks he needs the patient to respond as proof that he has done his job. He may want prestige and money. But giving to get is not really giving. The unhealed healer isn’t sharing and so there is no union and therefore no true relationship. It is in union and relationship that we are healed, because it is separation that is the sickness.

The psychoanalyst or theologian, or me or you, will not do anything of value if our own mind is not healed. No amount of digging around in the story is going to undo the story if the therapist is confused about the true nature of the patient, and is confused about the nature of healing and his part in it.

There are ways to help, though. When someone comes to me for counseling, I begin the session asking the Holy Spirit to work through me for this one. I listen to the story and then guide them out of the story to the true content, to the mind that is confused. I offer them an opportunity to see differently through the Holy Spirit in their mind.

If I share my own story of darkness it is only to share that I got out of it, and to share how I did that. I don’t teach that the darkness is real because I don’t believe it is real. Rather, I teach that what is not real cannot keep us bound. I am not concerned about the outcome because I am not asking them for anything. We are simply joining, forming a union with the two of us and the Holy Spirit. The union itself is healing for us both. That is real healing, I think, when the healer is healed along with the patient.

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