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Study of Text, Chapter 12: !. The Investment in Reality, P 4. 1-29-16

III. The Investment in Reality, P 4
4 Recognize what does not matter, and if your brothers ask you for something “outrageous,” do it because it does not matter. Refuse, and your opposition establishes that it does matter to you. It is only you, therefore, who have made the request outrageous, and every request of a brother is for you. Why would you insist in denying him? For to do so is to deny yourself and impoverish both. He is asking for salvation, as you are. Poverty is of the ego, and never of God. No “outrageous” requests can be made of one who recognizes what is valuable and wants to accept nothing else.

Journal
What I understand from this is that my brother is always asking for love and that is what I want to give him. There is no circumstance in which love is not the answer.  Here is an example of how I made a choice for love in my life.

When I left my husband, he wanted me to come back.  I couldn’t understand why he wanted that. When I asked him if he was happy in the marriage, he admitted he wasn’t, and yet he thought he wanted the marriage to continue. What I eventually recognized is that what he really wanted was to be loved.

It took awhile for us to work this out because I was confused about how to do this and still not be married to him.  Finally, I did my own mind healing work and I forgave the relationship completely. When I did this, he began to feel the forgiveness, and then I was led to apologize to him for my part in the relationship. This was the thing he needed to hear.

I couldn’t do it at first because I thought it was outrageous to apologize. I believed in his guilt and so no matter what I said, that belief was what he heard. Once I truly let the grievance go, I just naturally gave him what he needed.  He never apologized to me for his part but that is OK. I didn’t need an apology because I no longer believed in his guilt. We are friends now.

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Study of Text, Chapter 12, III.The Investment in Reality, P 3. 1-28-16

III. The Investment in Reality, P 3

3 Whenever you become angry with a brother, for whatever reason, you are believing that the ego is to be saved, and to be saved by attack. If he attacks, you are agreeing with this belief; and if you attack, you are reinforcing it. Remember that those who attack are poor. Their poverty asks for gifts, not for further impoverishment. You who could help them are surely acting destructively if you accept their poverty as yours. If you had not invested as they had, it would never occur to you to overlook their need.

Journal

I remember when I used to be very afraid of many things, and felt guilty about even more; I attacked myself and others all the time. I was impoverished, not knowing who I was. I felt small and frail and vulnerable and so I felt the need to defend myself. Not so much now. I still forget my identity and become defensive against others, many who are as impoverished as I once was. But most of the time, I recognize their need, and instead of making them feel more impoverished, I offer them the love they think they lack.

I don’t do this perfectly, but when I attack, usually in my mind only now, I see what is happening and I ask for healing. If I am upset by their attack it can only be because I believe in my poverty as well as theirs, and I am making it feel more real to both of us. As I write about this it all seems so straightforward and simple and I think I know exactly how I will react, but I have seen from experience that if there is fear or guilt in my mind, I will act from that.

Last night at a meeting I noticed that my competitor was there and he was talking to my customer. They were sitting together and laughing and I felt a knot of fear in my belly. I was impoverished, and knew it. It was easy last night to release that false thought to Spirit, but it is not always so easy. When it is hard it just means there is a lot of fear in my mind that I need to let go.

It is never about the other person or the circumstances, only about my own mind. When I remember that, I can be a healing channel for us all. When I forget, I have an opportunity to choose again. Each time I choose God, my memory of reality gets stronger and it is easier to remember the next time.

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study of Text, Chapter 12: !. The Investment in Reality, P 2. 1-26-16

III. The Investment in Reality, P 2
2 Suppose a brother insists on having you do something you think you do not want to do. His very insistence should tell you that he believes salvation lies in it. If you insist on refusing and experience a quick response of opposition, you are believing that your salvation lies in not doing it. You, then, are making the same mistake he is, and are making his error real to both of you. Insistence means investment, and what you invest in is always related to your notion of salvation. The question is always twofold; first, what is to be saved? And second, how can it be saved?

Journal
I have a brother who is very religious. He believes as strongly in his version of religion as I do in A Course in Miracles. It used to be that when we were together we tried not to talk about the only thing that really matters to us since we seem to have no meeting place on this subject. Over time I have made a different choice. I don’t bring up religion, but if he wants to talk about it, I let him. I open my mind to the Holy Spirit in him and listen.

He thinks this is where his salvation lies, that is, to share his beliefs with me is salvation to him. To refuse to hear him would mean that I think that not hearing his beliefs is my salvation. When I close my ears to him, I am making the same mistake he is and making our error real to us both. I know that A Course in Miracles is not the only path home and I know that where he is on his path is perfect for him at this time.

So why would I resist his words. He is sharing his joy, why wouldn’t I accept his gift gladly and in gratitude that he loves me and wants me to have it. Am I invested in the idea that my way is the only way? If so, I have a thought in my mind that I can bring to Holy Spirit to be healed. I don’t have to join him in his beliefs, but I can be a listener. God honors our miscreations simply because they are ours. That doesn’t mean he accepts them as truth. I can emulate that generosity and love and honor my brother’s ideas whether I embrace them or not.

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Study of Text, Chapter 12: !. The Investment in Reality, P 1. 1-25-16

III. The Investment in Reality, P 1

1 I once asked you to sell all you have and give to the poor and follow me. This is what I meant: If you have no investment in anything in this world, you can teach the poor where their treasure is. The poor are merely those who have invested wrongly, and they are poor indeed! Because they are in need it is given you to help them, since you are among them. Consider how perfectly your lesson would be learned if you were unwilling to share their poverty. For poverty is lack, and there is but one lack since there is but one need.

Journal

This is an interesting paragraph. Jesus is explaining the purpose of a biblical quote, the meaning behind the words. In the Bible he was quoted as having asked that a man sell all he had and give it to the poor in order to follow him. It seems that what he meant was that his followers should give up their investment in the world. I suppose selling material possessions would be a symbol of having given up the love or need of them, that is, giving up the attachment to the world of form.

What would be the meaning behind giving to the poor? He tells us here that the poor are all who fail to know where their treasure lies. If we have no investment in the world, we can teach others through our words, our deeds, and through our freedom that they will remain poor as long as they think the world and all that is in the world, is valuable. We could not teach freedom unless we were free.

As long as we think there is something to long for, some need as yet unmet, we are not free. Need is poverty, it is the expression of lack. There is only one thing we need and that is our awakening. Once we let go of the attachment to the things we own, and the things we want to own, we are free to follow Jesus to our awakening.

Does this mean that I should sell all my belongings and my house and walk the earth unburdened by them? Being without things will not bring me to the awakening. If I were without all these things and felt poor for it, I would not be free. However, being without the need for these things will allow me to discover my true treasure. I can have a lovely home and many beautiful things and enjoy them without needing them. This leaves my mind free and open to what does matter. It is not things that tie me to the world, it is the need for these things that does that.

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Study of Text, Chapter 11, VII.The Way to Remember God, P 10. 1-21-16

VII. The Way to Remember God, P 10

10 We are therefore embarking on an organized, well-structured and carefully planned program aimed at learning how to offer to the Holy Spirit everything you do not want. He knows what to do with it. You do not understand how to use what He knows. Whatever is given Him that is not of God is gone. Yet you must look at it yourself in perfect willingness, for otherwise His knowledge remains useless to you. Surely He will not fail to help you, since help is His only purpose. Do you not have greater reason for fearing the world as you perceive it, than for looking at the cause of fear and letting it go forever?

Journal

I notice that I have a couple of areas in my life that I seem determined to defend against God’s Love. I have let so much go and yet these problems remain. I am tempted to think of them has harder or more important, or proof that not all healing is possible. But the truth is, I don’t have different problems; I have one problem. It just shows up in different forms.

One of those forms that I have not allowed the Holy Spirit to correct for me is this. I make choices to not do certain things and then I do them anyway. For instance, I decide to not eat sugar and then before the day is out I have succumbed to the desire for a pastry. Then I feel guilty and weak and helpless against my own compulsions. Very ego of me, isn’t it?

And that is the point. The only problem I have is that I think I separated from God. That belief makes itself known in the world of time and space as this situation in which I seem to prove over and over that I cannot be part of God, because, obviously, I am weak and helpless. Failing to stop eating sugar is just a representation of the desire to remain separate. Eating or not eating sugar is not, of itself, important in any way. It is just a symbol of my fear of Love, and my determination to keep it blocked.

When I fail to live up to a commitment I make, the guilt builds for awhile and then one day I feel depressed about it. I feel hopeless as well as helpless. I think I will never do this and that even the Holy Spirit has given up on me. And the endless, disheartening cycle continues. Fortunately, while my mind is still split, I am more in touch with the right side than I used to be and so I don’t let myself get sucked down into this scary place for too long before I make another choice.

I long for this cycle to be completely broken and I know it will, just as other projections have been healed. I am reminded that a characteristic of God’s teachers is patience. So I rest in God for a moment and let my soul be soothed and comforted. I embrace patience knowing this, too, shall pass and there is no possibility of failure, so I can indeed afford to be patient. One day I will let this go forever.

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Study of Text, Chapter 12: !. The Way to Remember God, P 9. 1-19-16

II. The Way to Remember God, P 9

9 You who have tried to banish love have not succeeded, but you who choose to banish fear must succeed. The Lord is with you, but you know it not. Yet your Redeemer liveth, and abideth in you in the peace out of which He was created. Would you not exchange this awareness for the awareness of fear? When we have overcome fear—not by hiding it, not by minimizing it, and not by denying its full import in any way—this is what you will really see. You cannot lay aside the obstacles to real vision without looking upon them, for to lay aside means to judge against. If you will look, the Holy Spirit will judge, and He will judge truly. Yet He cannot shine away what you keep hidden, for you have not offered it to Him and He cannot take it from you.

Journal

As Jesus tells us often, we are only pretending to abandon love because it cannot be done. What can and must be done is that we abandon fear. We will do that because the Lord is with us. We can be aware of this rather than aware of fear. The way we do this is simple. We overcome fear when we stop hiding and denying and minimizing. Trying to use the ego mind to rid ourselves of it in some way is how we keep it.

We must give our fear thoughts to the Holy Spirit to judge for us and He will always judge them as false. To give them to Him we must do more than say the words. There must be a willingness to really see the fear, to acknowledge the import fear has on us. That means feeling the fear. Here is what happens for me.

I have something that must be done at work and so far I have not succeeded. I started getting anxious about that. Then I was talking to my son on the phone and he was describing his efforts to get his finances in order. This brought up mine, and I told him how my plans to retire are coming along. Then I told him I had not yet added up my basic costs to see if my income will cover everything. I new that I was avoiding this out of fear.

When I went to bed these worries were on my mind and I couldn’t sleep. I tried to put them aside but they kept coming back. I tried to reassure myself that it would all work out and thought about solutions to the problems. I could feel myself getting more and more anxious. I stopped the runaway fear thoughts by reminding myself of what matters.

I reminded myself that the peace of God is everything I want. I did this several times. I have a little card above my desk that says, “Holy Spirit, I’m listening.” I thought about that card each time the ego tried to drag me back into the fear. “I’m listening, Holy Spirit.” I listened to Him tell me that I am loved and safe and that the peace of God is mine. He reminded me that I am not a victim to my thoughts. That was very helpful.

I know that the ego mind will try to engage me in fear and guilt thoughts until the desire for them is completely gone. It is not a surprise that it happens at times, and each time it does I look with the Holy Spirit and make a choice. There was a time it would have taken me days to let my fear go. There was a time when the fear would have consumed me and left me shaking and crying.

Now I notice fear thoughts and turn to the Holy Spirit immediately. I am not afraid of the thoughts and I am not willing to keep them. Last night I was anxious and began to obsess about these problems, but I am used to peace now and I can’t maintain this kind of anxiety. I miss peace as soon as I give it up and I want it back.

Yes, sitting in the fear was uncomfortable, but I can’t give it up unless I look at it with Spirit, feel it, acknowledge its effect on me. Doing that I can then truly decide if I want to keep it or if I want to let it go. When I asked Holy Spirit to take it from me, I knew what I was asking and I was certain of my decision. And it was done.

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Study of Text, Chapter 12: !. The Way to Remember God, P 8. 1-18-16

II. The Way to Remember God, P 8
8 There is no fear in perfect love. We will but be making perfect to you what is already perfect in you. You do not fear the unknown but the known. You will not fail in your mission because I did not fail in mine. Give me but a little trust in the name of the complete trust I have in you, and we will easily accomplish the goal of perfection together. For perfection is, and cannot be denied. To deny the denial of perfection is not so difficult as to deny truth, and what we can accomplish together will be believed when you see it as accomplished.

Journal

What I understand from this paragraph is that I am perfect and all that is being done now through this study and through my acceptance is that I am choosing to know this perfection. My desire to know is my part and my practices feed my desire and my willingness. I cannot fail in my mission to awaken because Jesus did not fail in his. What is accomplished through him, is accomplished in us all. This is done.

All that is left is that I accept that it is done through my desire that it be done and through my willingness to be done. So I continue to do the lessons, to read the Text, to allow the Holy Spirit to heal my mind. I continue to be vigilant for my thoughts and willing to be corrected when they are not in alignment with truth. I continue to do these things as long as is needed until perfection is seen as accomplished. I trust Jesus and in that trust, I have come to trust myself as well.

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