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Study of Text, C 15: V. The Holy Instant and Special Relationships, P 10. 2-5-18

V. The Holy Instant and Special Relationships, P 1
10 All your relationships are blessed in the holy instant, because the blessing is not limited. In the holy instant the Sonship gains as one, and united in your blessing it becomes one to you. The meaning of love is the meaning God gave to it. Give to it any meaning apart from His, and it is impossible to understand it. God loves every brother as He loves you; neither less nor more. He needs them all equally, and so do you. In time, you have been told to offer miracles as I direct, and let the Holy Spirit bring to you those who are seeking you. Yet in the holy instant you unite directly with God, and all your brothers join in Christ. Those who are joined in Christ are in no way separate. For Christ is the Self the Sonship shares, as God shares His Self with Christ.

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All your relationships are blessed in the holy instant, because the blessing is not limited.

The holy instant is outside time. It is a moment in which a new choice is made, a choice for love rather than fear. In the holy instant we know each other and so love each other. We join with each other and with God. All relationships change because the one Self remembered.

This is different than what we do within time. Within time, we don’t know our oneness and so we don’t know love. In time, we need miracles and the Holy Spirit brings into our lives those who need the miracle we have to offer and who can benefit from it. We open our hearts to love and our minds to him and we channel the miracles that heal us all.

In the holy instant, this is no longer needed. Outside of time, there is nothing to heal. There is no one who has more and no one who has less. There is nothing lacking. In the holy instant, we understand the meaning of love. We join directly with God and with all our brothers in Christ.

We can only imagine this while we are still in time, or maybe, we will be graced with revelation and have some brief experience of pure love. That is really something, but it does not last. Here, our focus is on healing, on helping each other to remember. And while this is happening, we seem to heal our relationships one at a time. But, you know, each time I heal a relationship, all of my relationships benefit, so I do get a taste of what it is like to have no limits on my blessings.

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Manual for Teachers: III. The Function of the Teacher of God, P 3. 2-2-18

III. The Function of the Teacher of God, P 3
3 Not once do the advanced teachers of God consider the forms of sickness in which their brother believes. To do this is to forget that all of them have the same purpose, and therefore are not really different. They seek for God’s Voice in this brother who would so deceive himself as to believe God’s Son can suffer. And they remind him that he did not make himself, and must remain as God created him. They recognize illusions can have no effect. The truth in their minds reaches out to the truth in the minds of their brothers, so that illusions are not reinforced. They are thus brought to truth; truth is not brought to them. So are they dispelled, not by the will of another, but by the One Will with itself. And this is the function of God’s teachers; to see no will as separate from their own, nor theirs as separate from God’s.

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What a great paragraph! First, we are reminded that there is no difference between the forms the sickness might take. One is not harder to heal than another. The reason this is so is that they all share one purpose. I am reminded of the question, “What is it for?” This is all that matters, not the form itself.

Then Jesus expands on what he has said before about how to be helpful. The teacher of God understands that the problem is in the mind not the body. They know that this one has forgotten who he is or he could not be sick. The teacher of God knows that we are always just as God created us and anything else is an illusion and that the effects of illusions are illusions as well. How could it be that one illusion is more real than another illusion? That’s just funny.

So we help by allowing the truth in our mind to reach out to the truth in our brother’s mind. In this way, the illusion is not reinforced. In this way the illusion is brought to the truth so that it can be dispelled, not by my will overcoming another’s but through the power of God in us. This is our function, to see the teacher’s my will is joined with the patient’s will, which is joined with God’s Will.

Here is how this looks in my mind. I have someone on my prayer list who needs a job. I hold her in my mind and I see her perfection expressed as a skill set that someone else needs. I see her and the perfect company being magnetically drawn to each other. I see her joyfully joining with that company and the people working there, each to the other’s benefit. It is such a happy picture that I love thinking about it. It is love finding its way to love, expressing itself in the way most useful at this time and in this place.

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Study of Text, C 15: V. The Holy Instant and Special Relationships, P 9. 2-1-18

V. The Holy Instant and Special Relationships, P 9
9 God knows you now. He remembers nothing, having always known you exactly as He knows you now. The holy instant reflects His knowing by bringing all perception out of the past, thus removing the frame of reference you have built by which to judge your brothers. Once this is gone, the Holy Spirit substitutes His frame of reference for it. His frame of reference is simply God. The Holy Spirit’s timelessness lies only here. For in the holy instant, free of the past, you see that love is in you, and you have no need to look without and snatch love guiltily from where you thought it was.

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This is simple. How is it that I have a holy relationship instead of a special relationship? I give the past to the Holy Spirit and accept myself as God knows me now. Since God knows me as I am, as the Love of which I was created, and I accept His judgment of me as my own, I know myself as love. Now, where is the need to “find” love? Do I need someone to love me if love is already in me?

This leaves me free to be in a relationship that is free of neediness. I love and want nothing in return. I love because love is natural and joyful. There will be no strings attached, no secret bargains in the relationship. When I first began to understand how special relationships work, I was dismayed at my own part in this.

Even the little things we take for granted in a relationship. For instance the thought I might have of a friend: He will be there for me when I need him. How about, I will be there for myself when I need it. Then I can just enjoy the love I have for him regardless of any response he might like to make or not make.

Have you ever had one of those days where you just felt battered by the world and you thought, “Let me just get home to that special one, and he will make me feel better.” Then you get home and he is not there. Or he is there but doesn’t seem to have an interest in your day, or doesn’t understand what you need. Or you get there and all he wants to do is talk about his problems.

Expectations unmet, secret bargains not lived up to, needs not met by the one you chose to meet them, love not given and received. Yet, is that love at all?  Maybe love seems lost because the interpretation of love is so strange that we no longer know what love is. What if, instead, we choose to see love where it is?

It is within us because that is where God placed it, or rather perhaps it would be more accurate to say that as an extension of Love, you are love. That is the love we each really seek. If we keep looking for it outside ourselves, we are never going to find it. Accept God’s decision about ourselves and we will have no need to look without and snatch love guiltily from where we thought it was.

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Manual for Teachers: III. The Function of the Teacher of God, P 2. 1-31-18

III. The Function of the Teacher of God, P 2
2 To them God’s teachers come, to represent another choice which they had forgotten. The simple presence of a teacher of God is a reminder. His thoughts ask for the right to question what the patient has accepted as true. As God’s messengers, His teachers are the symbols of salvation. They ask the patient for forgiveness for God’s Son in his own Name. They stand for the Alternative. With God’s Word in their minds they come in benediction, not to heal the sick but to remind them of the remedy God has already given them. It is not their hands that heal. It is not their voice that speaks the Word of God. They merely give what has been given them. Very gently they call to their brothers to turn away from death. Behold, you Son of God, what life can offer you. Would you choose sickness in place of this?

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In the previous paragraph, Jesus tells us that we cannot change the patient’s mind. Now he tells us how we can help. As a teacher of God, we stand for the truth. We stand for the Alternative. We do not come to heal the sick, but simply to remind them of the remedy God has already given them. We give them our certainty that they are still as God created them. We do this not with our hands or our voice. Our mind calls to their mind through the truth that is in both. We are symbols of salvation.

This is how I pray for people. I simply remember who they are. I remember that pain and sickness are not real. I remember that this is not God’s Will for His children and so it cannot be. I see in my mind, not the sick and hopeless, but the flawless children of God. I see the truth in their mind blazing into life, guiding them, comforting them and healing any remaining confusion in our mind. I see the essence of who we are and know that we are joined in perfect communion within the Mind of God. I merely give what I have been given.

 

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Study of Text, C 15: V. The Holy Instant and Special Relationships, P 8. 1-30-18

V. The Holy Instant and Special Relationships, P 8
8 Everyone on earth has formed special relationships, and although this is not so in Heaven, the Holy Spirit knows how to bring a touch of Heaven to them here. In the holy instant no one is special, for your personal needs intrude on no one to make your brothers seem different. Without the values from the past, you would see them all the same and like yourself. Nor would you see any separation between yourself and them. In the holy instant, you see in each relationship what it will be when you perceive only the present.

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This paragraph is almost incomprehensible to the ego mind. In the holy instant no one is special… Wait, let me review what Jesus means by the holy instant. Oh yes, it is the instant outside of time in which we choose forgiveness instead of guilt, the miracle instead of a grievance, the Holy Spirit instead of the ego. Yes, I know that the Holy Spirit will bring me to the holy instant if that is my true desire. I choose the Holy Spirit instead of ego, and the rest will follow.

In this timeless moment, no one is special. I see everyone as they are, as they were created, and that means I see (perceive) them as united and me with them, as one glorious self. It is not that one is the same as another, each being interchangeable. It is that there is no other. I love you and you and you because I love because we are all together the One I love. How very strange the idea of one is to a mind mired in separation.

… your personal needs intrude on no one to make your brothers seem different. In the holy instant, outside of time, there is no personal. There is only a shared self. There are no needs. All is given to all. This is another nearly incompressible idea. I wonder if there is any relationship I have ever had that was not burdened by my personal needs. Even those to whom I am the closest bear this burden. I expect something from everyone and feel abandoned or rejected when I don’t receive it.

Without the values from the past, you would see them all the same and like yourself. How did I learn that I have needs and that people I love are expected to fill those needs? I learned it as those expectations were placed on me. I learned it from my parents and other loved ones, and from friends. I learned it from books and movies, and even commercials. All this past learning still drives me today, though not as forcefully as it used to. The holy instant is outside the idea of time. It is free of time and thus free of the past and all that was learned in the past.

In the holy instant, I will see in each relationship what it will be when I perceive only the present. And what is clear to me is that I cannot give myself the holy instant that will lead me to the holy relationship. I can barely grasp its meaning. I need the Holy Spirit for this. That is His function, and mine is to accept the Atonement as it is offered. I can understand just enough to know that I long for holy relationships and I long for the holy instant. I understand enough to do my part. I am assured that this is enough.

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