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July-September, 2017

What Am I?

by Rev. Maura Williams, O.M.C.

When I first started studying the Course, it turned my world up side down. I thought I knew exactly who I was and where I was going. I wasn’t very happy, but I wasn’t extremely unhappy. As I looked out at the world I knew, I figured experiencing ups and downs was just a part of our ever changing world. I could assure myself that not one person here is really happy. Our states of being seem to go up and down with the stock market, the weather or any other circumstance. This is the world of form.

When I studied the Course, I learned a lot of new things. I learned about the world behind the world of form. This is the unspoken world of ideas. I learned truth is changeless. In truth no one has less or more. There is no way for everyone not to have everything all the time. I learned giving is receiving. Nothing means anything in the world of form. The things I see, think and feel are all lessons God would have me learn. When I began to live my life this way, I came to understand myself. I began to see who I am in truth and life had much more meaning.

I still can feel deep, profound and sometimes confusing feelings, but when I accept them all as lessons God would have me learn, a whole new world begins to emerge. I’m not so attached to the outcome. I’m quietly observing myself interacting with others. I monitor my emotions without judgment, and I’m able to allow the Holy Spirit to work through me.

This quote is from Lesson 139: ‘I will accept Atonement for myself.’

“There is no conflict that does not entail the single, simple question, ‘What am I?’  The only thing that can be surely known by any living thing is what it is. From this one point of certainty, it looks on other things as certain as itself.”

When I experience conflict, it is because I have forgotten who I am. I have lost my point of certainty in an uncertain world. In forgetting who I am, I have also forgotten who my brother is. What am I? I am child of God, deeply loved and cared for by Him, so much more than the self I think I know. When I remember this, I see my brother the way I see myself.  The interaction I observe is between two people who are both more than they think they know. I know myself and my brother in a new way I’m not able to describe, because it must be experienced. There are no words for the beauty of this interaction. We are all a part of Love. We are so much more than we know, and we need each other to help us remember this truth.

Remembering the truth of who you are requires no words. This remembering is only a thought, but it is a thought so powerful it will change the world you see. Remember who you are, and you will recognize your brother as yourself. You will see the light in him, the truth in him and the love in him. When you see this, remember these qualities are also in you. You couldn’t see them in your brother if you didn’t first know them in yourself.

If you can hold yourself in this state of quiet certainty, you will know love. You will know the peace of God. You will know joy. Your heart will overflow with gratitude to God and to your brother. You will know the oneness of all creation.

Rev. Maura Williams, O.M.C., is a Pathways of Light minister living in Hot Springs, AR. Email: .(JavaScript must be enabled to view this email address)

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July-September, 2017

You Are Perfect Love

by Rev. Susan Comello, O.M.C.

Once upon a time I was a sad, lonely human being. Or at least that’s what I believed. Everything was always so hard! I worked and efforted and would try so hard to be happy, to be even okay. But it was always more problems, more disappointments, more hardship. Those times when I did feel some happiness or love always had a cloud hanging over me with a hidden message of gloom: “Even if you are happy for awhile, it will end!”

So fear also was my constant companion, along with the sadness, the confusion, and the belief that something was wrong with me for feeling so bad. A lose-lose life. Poor little me.

In my 30’s, I went to college to learn how to be a counselor for children, believing that perhaps, if I was able to help kids, they would not grow up to feel so alone and fearful in this world. And I would find some meaning in life. In my final year, I was doing an internship. I was also ending a relationship that had been good for a few years, but then his alcoholism became too much to bear, and so I was sad again.

There was a conference, called SingleFest in Spring, and because of my sadness, I went to the conference to meet someone or learn something or to find a way to hope again. The conference was actually good with some great experiences for me. But the gift of all gifts was meeting Robert and Mary that day.

I was tired from being there most of the day and decided to just give all the booths a glance. In a sea of booths and people, I saw a very interesting T-shirt from across the room. It was white with a picture of the Earth on it — the words said “All One People.”

I was drawn to it like a bee to the most beautiful flower. I went straight to the booth and started to talk to Robert and Mary. They were so humble and yet so warm. They showed me the (green printed) brochure from Munedowk.  (That’s what Pathways was called in 1990.)  And I saw the picture of the lake.

Folks, truth is, it was the lake that called to me. I bought the shirt (and still have it) and I dreamed about how I could go to the retreat in July, since I had two kids at home and no job or money, I didn’t know how I could ever do it. But Mary knew.

Mary and I spoke on the phone a few times over the next couple months. I told her about my situation and her response was complete love. She would say things to me like, “You are perfect love.” When she first said this to me, I was stunned. I was speechless. I had never heard anything like this in my life. I could not really understand what she was saying, but she kept saying it to me in different conversations and slowly, the truth started to sink in.

Over the years I have had so many loving experiences both in person and on the phone, that I began to open to the possibility that I am truly pure love. It took a pretty long time (yet, what the heck is time?). But eventually, I let the Truth be in me more and more fully.  

I did go to the retreat that July  (I made beds and washed dishes and found eight different babysitters/family to watch my kids for 11 days). I got to swim in the healing water of Love Lake,  I found A Course in Miracles and became lifelong friends with my family of Pathways members. This has changed my life forever.  

I now know I am perfect love, even if I forget, I KNOW I will remember! Yippee!! I have faith in love.

I went to a retreat last week.. A friend had just told about her meeting with the Dalai Lama. I heard Spirit say, “It’s like when Mary first said You are perfect love, so maybe I will tell that story.” Sometimes I am shy with new people, but I felt the inspiration to share this story, even though these were not Course people. When I shared the story at lunch, I was speaking to five or six women, and when I said the part about, “You are perfect love,” I looked right into the eyes of a young woman, who seemed to drink in my words, open and receiving what I said. “Yes!” they all said, “a beautiful story.”  

After the retreat, the young woman found me and told me how much my story meant to her. She remembered a story about a teacher who had said something so meaningful to her when she was younger. She said that she had forgotten until I shared at lunch. And so, Love extends.  

When I shared this whole story with Robert and Mary and fellow ministers, I said that I was feeling the role shift in me from the scared, lonely person I had been when I first heard those words, to one of the teachers of God, who knows the Truth and is now extending what I have been given. Mary said, “Perhaps you would like to share the story in Miracles News and extend the love even more.” And on and on love flows. We come back to where we have never left. We share the one Perfect Love with each and every brother and with God. We are all ONE perfect love. Thank you God.

Rev. Susan Comello, O.M.C., is a Pathways of Light minister living in Madison, WI. Email: .(JavaScript must be enabled to view this email address)

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April-June, 2017

Miracles News, April-June, 2017

 

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Holy Spirit’s
wave of peace.

Pathways of Light Miracles News is published quarterly in print and online to provide a forum for Pathways of Light ministers to share their process of allowing the Holy Spirit to heal their minds. As we read and share these miracle stories with each other, we are inspired and we inspire each other to accelerate our return Home to Love, peace and happiness.

Subscriptions to the printed version are available without charge, but tax-deductible donations are gratefully received to support the printing and mailing expenses of this magazine. A suggested donation of $20.00 a year is invited.

Pathways of Light is nonprofit, providing spiritually focused courses with A Course in Miracles orientation, and has served spiritual awakening for over 27 years. Pathways of Light is dedicated to joining with people around the world in awakening to the Love and peace of God. As part of this joining, Pathways of Light offers training in a new kind of spiritual ministry.

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April-June, 2017

You Are Not Who You Think You Are

by Rev. Maria Felipe, O.M.C.

Before she was an author and a minister, Reverend Maria Felipe was an actress, a model, and a TV host with a fabulous French boyfriend. She appeared in national commercials, was the first ever Latina boxing announcer, and interviewed World Wrestling Federation competitors in front of audiences of twenty thousand people. People Magazine in Español even referred to her as “Una Campeona Sin rival,” which means a champion without rival. But through it all, she felt insecure, unworthy, and downright miserable.

All that began to change when she discovered A Course in Miracles and eventually went on to get her ministerial training from Pathways of Light.

Now, in her new book, Live Your Happy: Get Out of Your Own Way and Find the Love Within (New World Library, April 22, 2017), Maria shares her more than twenty years of experience studying and living the principles from ACIM. This is not a philosophic explanation of the Course. It is a practical, hands-on guide for actually living it. We hope you’ll enjoy this excerpt from the book.

An excerpt from new book:
Live Your Happy

We can choose to see the world through the eyes of love or through the eyes of fear. This is the fundamental choice of our everyday life. In the terms of A Course in Miracles, this means deciding between the thought systems of the Holy Spirit or the ego. The whole world as we experience it exists because most people choose ego — the way of fear — most of the time. That is, we tend to think that we are separate, alone, unworthy, and guilty. Please excuse my Spanish if I suggest that this is all a bunch of caca!

In fact, I call the ego our “cuckoo” voice: It’s the part of the mind that worries, judges, fears, and holds grudges. In short, the ego is out to kill our happy. The good news is that another completely different way of thinking is available to us. The Holy Spirit is right there inside our minds, waiting for the chance to remind us that happiness is our divine right! We have the power to choose freedom, and even though we may forget we have that choice, we always have more opportunities to choose love. The patience and kindness of the Holy Spirit never go away. Whenever we drift away, the Holy Spirit just waits for our return.

We drift because the ego can be very powerful. It convinces us of two simultaneous, contradictory ideas: The first is that we’re unworthy, unlovable, and just not good enough; and the second is that we’ll somehow find happiness out in the world, even though we don’t really deserve it. Thus, our ego convinces us that if we somehow find the perfect job or relationship, we’ll be happy. If we put tons of cash in the bank, we’ll be happy. If we graduate from college, get a promotion, and so on, we’ll be happy. But as the Course puts it so bluntly:

“The ego’s rule is, ‘Seek but do not find’ [and] ‘Try to learn but do not succeed.’” (T-12.V)

Obviously, there’s just no way to win with this thought system.

Your Happy Comes from Within

We have two teachers we can choose from. Depending on which thought system we choose, we are literally deciding whether to live in hell (where ego takes us) or heaven (the Holy Spirit’s neighborhood). These are not places in the afterlife; they are the ways we experience existence right now. We will experience our existence exactly as we choose: “Your picture of the world can only mirror what is within. The source of neither light nor darkness can be found without.” (W-pI.73.5:1-2)

For example, when I was going through my divorce, my ex-husband once called to express some anger that left me feeling very sad. My ego reaction came up right away:

Who does he think he is? What a jerk! Poor me! I haven’t done anything wrong. He should be paying me alimony….Blah blah blah.

After a while I caught on, looked at where my thoughts were taking me, and began to pray: “Holy Spirit, I am feeling very sad. All my thoughts are hurting me now. I must have chosen wrongly, so now I choose again. Heal my mind, Holy Spirit — I want peace instead of this.”

To my surprise, a stillness came over me right away. Soon I even began laughing. I realized that what I was thinking was just coming from my ego, the fear-driven part of my mind, and that I did not need to buy into it! I remembered this principle of the Course:

Whatever you accept
into your mind has reality for you.
It is your acceptance of it
that makes it real.

The rest of my day was wonderful!

The Four Tricks of the Ego

Why do we choose the madness that is the ego? It’s simple:

We believe it’s us.

We don’t know how not to.

Our minds are undisciplined.

We forget our innate goodness, leading us to believe what the ego says. The Holy Spirit is the part of the mind that reminds us of the truth, which is that we are created by Love itself (also known as God). The Holy Spirit is our direct line to God. By forgetting that we are created from Love and thus are part of God, we fall asleep to our own reality. The Holy Spirit knows this and can help us wake up if we so choose.

The key to waking up is to understand the ego’s tricks — that is, the tricks we play on ourselves. Let’s look at the four major ones.

Ego Trick 1: The Shoulds

The ego has a favorite theme: shoulda, coulda, woulda. As in:

“I shoulda done this better.”

“I coulda gotten that job.”

“If I’d followed my hunch, things woulda worked out differently.”

Not only does the ego use “should” to punish us inwardly with such judgments, it then projects them outward onto others:

“If you loved me, you would do so-and-so.”

“You should have done things my way, then it all would have worked out.”

“You could be doing more for this relationship.”

Whether we’re punishing ourselves or others, there’s no winning the ego’s game. We will only end up feeling disappointed and frustrated with ourselves and others. When you have these ego-programmed expectations, you can’t be happy because you are too busy worrying about what the other person should be doing, instead of recognizing the real cause of your frustration: yourself.

Also, having expectations is not being loving; it’s actually the opposite. You are not allowing others to be as they are, but instead imposing your ideas of how they should be. This is a trick of the ego that will always take you to hell. It’s best to focus on healing our own mind, letting go of expectations, and trusting — a subject we will address at the end of this book. Trust is vital to living your happy.

Ego Trick 2: Obsession with the Past

The ego likes to keep us in the past, thinking about how we messed everything up and how we could’ve done it better! Our mistakes seem to be the source of our guilt, but in fact guilt always begins with the choice of separateness. We actually feel guilty because we fear love even as we go around looking for it, and so we settle for its opposite.

For instance, after her breakup with her boyfriend, a client once told me that she wished that she had not acted as if she had cared so much while they had been together. By “caring” she meant acting jealous of the attention he had received from an ex. Had she not acted jealous in the past, she kept repeating, then they might still be together. She was stuck in the past, regretting that she had not lied about her real feelings! This is just one example of the ego’s delusional thought system, convincing us that real love is impossible, so we might as well settle for some variety of guilt instead. Whenever we focus on the past in a negative way, this is a choice we are making.

Ego Trick 3: Focus on the Body

Above all, the ego believes in separation, and the body is the ultimate proof that each of us is separate, different from everyone else, and thus special. Serving the body, taking care of the body, and finding distraction and pleasure through the body are the ego’s preoccupations. In fact, we tend to believe that happiness is found through taking the best possible care of the body. Yet the body is more often our “problem center,” especially if we are trying to find fulfillment, purpose, and intimacy through it.

Great sex, for instance, is not a bad thing, but just how often is it reliably great? How many times have you felt terrible after having sex with someone when you knew it was not a good idea — as in so-called makeup sex? In my marriage, physical intimacy was a major issue, so after we divorced, sex was all I wanted. My hurt ego convinced me that I would be happy again if I had enough sex, yet all the “hunt” brought me was sadness. I might feel good for a hot second, driving home from some guy’s place, but soon I just felt empty.

Now my experience of the body is totally different because I use it to extend love, rather than try to find love through someone else’s body. Let me repeat that: I use my body to extend Love. I ask myself, how may I serve with this body? How can I serve through this body? Now I use this body to collaborate with other teachers, giving a talk, workshop, or sermon. My body is an instrument, which means that it’s not who I am. It’s there to serve me and others, not the other way around.

Ego Trick 4: Your Happiness Is “Out There”

When ego is running the show, you need to make things happen, and so you try to manipulate the world even if it kills you! The ego is always whispering in your ear (and it’s pretty loud — what in showbiz we call a “stage whisper”), telling you that you will not be happy or free until you get enough money, or the right person, or the perfect job. If that were true, then we would not hear so many stories of people who “have it made” on a material level but who are also alcoholics, drug addicts, or suicidally depressed. The truth is that nothing “out there” will ever give you freedom or happiness. That’s because you already have it — it’s your divine right to be happy as a perfect child of God.

It’s vital to understand the ego’s tricks, which describe how the ego projects fear. Then we can recognize the ego whenever it becomes active in our minds. We must also build a relationship with our internal teacher, the Holy Spirit, so that we give to it all our false, negative thoughts, which are of no use. This is your job if you want to live your happy! Each day you have the opportunity to remember that you are not your ego thoughts; you are the decision maker who can choose a different way of thinking. As A Course in Miracles puts it: “Each day, each hour and minute, even each second, you are deciding between the crucifixion and the resurrection; between the ego and Holy Spirit. The ego is the choice for guilt; the Holy Spirit is the choice for guiltlessness.” (T-14.III)

Stop, Look, and Listen

How can you remember who you really are? First, by becoming aware of your thoughts. Know who is running the show! You can learn to recognize the cuckoo voice and all its negative chatter, but it is muy importante to be mindful!

Here is the process I use:

1. Stop: Take a deep breath and pause to notice what you’re thinking and feeling. If your mind is running loose with negative chatter, just stop it!

2. Look: Now, look at your thought patterns. S-l-o-w d-o-w-n the pace of your thoughts so that it is easier to notice when the cuckoo voice is blocking your inner wisdom.

3. Ask and listen: Ask to see difficult situations or people in another way. When your cuckoo voice has quieted, you can begin to hear the voice of the Holy Spirit telling you how to shift your perceptions. Trust that you will receive the insights that will bring you to your happy!

Maria Felipe is the author of Live Your Happy. After experiencing success as a model and actress, including hosting World Wrestling Federation TV shows, she felt called inward and studied to become a reverend at Pathways of Light. She leads monthly services in both Spanish and English at Unity Church in Burbank, CA. Visit her online at www.MariaFelipe.org. Excerpted from the book Live Your Happy: Get Out of Your Own Way and Find the Love Within. Copyright © 2017 by Maria Felipe. Printed with permission from New World Library. www.newworldlibrary.com

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